I’m sure at first glance you probably think this weeks blog is actually about “my favorite kink”, well you are not entirely incorrect. MyFavoriteKink (or MFK) is an adult store on Etsy that hand makes everything. While paracord is the favored material of this shop, they do offer other materials including leather. Since everything is hand made you can get customized items, different colors, lengths etc. All you have to do is mssg the shop owner and she will help you out.

My experience with MFK: I instantly fell in love with this shop, BEFORE placing my order. The owner has many beautiful items, . I WANTED THEM ALL….since that’s not going to happen in one order (oh but it will happen one day!) I decided to try out the Nylon/paracord looped end flogger. The product’s description as per MFK on Etsy:

This is a heavy and thuddy flogger that doesn’t hold back. The ends of the nylon are looped to prevent fraying. The falls are 12″ in length, and the handle is a firm 5″.

The customer service was excellent, answering every question that came up, including detail about the colors. Once i decided what color, purple (i know big shocker!!), she took a few days to hand make mine, then shipped them out right away. My package came from the USPS (regular US to US shipping), with the nature of my product it was able to fit in a standard sized mailbox. It arrived on time, in perfect condition (the post office obviously behaved that day).

The flogger is beautiful just to look at, i have it hanging in my bedroom as to admire it, and to have one hell of an interesting conversational piece. It is also beneficial to have the flogger hanging, it allows the falls (the part after the handle that you are hit with) keep their shape. Bunched up in a bag, it may lose their natural shape, causing a fall to pop in an unintentional area )

Holding the handle, my fingers fit in a groove along side a braid, which gives it a nature feel. The weight and balance are perfect for my needs. I was able to control where it landed, also how hard i needed to swing to ensure a certain level of sweet pain.

On the flip side, being the person receiving the sweet pain, i can say its an unique mixture of different types of pain. As you know i am fan of sting, usually favor the cane. Not a fan of any kind of thud! The bad thing about most floggers is its very thuddy, it will vary with how thick and wide the falls are. Luckily (at least for me) these falls are thin, which means it will have a bit of thud, but mostly sting. This is also a great piece for those wanting to try sting, but not brave enough to experience the cane. While everyone’s body is different, and have varies pain to bruise ratio, i personally do not bruise easily, and if a bruise happens to show, it will be gone in less than 24 hrs. On me it left bright red, intensely sensitive ass cheeks, among other areas.

I defiantly will be visiting and purshcing from their Etsy store & facebook page. Check them out for yourselves.


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I hope my experiences help others when making a decision when investing in your personal collection. Im talking to the subs as well. i have my own impact toys for reasons of safety & knowing my own bodies needs and limits..

Author: Jen Keicher co-owner of Whips, Chains & Duct Tape (cell phone link) Whips, Chains & Duct Tape

BONBDSM review

From  BONBDSM i ordered a purple small ball gag, along with a matching leather leash (to go with the beautiful training collar i won a few weeks prior)

The ordering process was very easy, the items i received were just like that of the pics posted on the website, i could not be happier at this point.

I was very surprised at how fast i received my product, considering the business is located Thailand. The product is in a bag (the one i received was purple, but so was my products) with a small BONBDSM tag on it. Its a cloth bag, and i am currently storing my toys ordered from BONBDSM in it.

Let me start off with the training collar (it is called a “bondage leather choke collar on the website), it is purple (offered in 7 other colors as well), leather, the O-ring and other fittings (including the rolling buckle) are of premium quality and made to withstand training of even your most stubborn sub/slaves. The measurements off of the site are approx 1” in width, and fits 12”-17” inches in circumference. It is very comfortable to wear, even when it is being pulled on and is tight. It WILL get their attention, i promise you that. It is a beautiful piece to have Your bottom wear to events, during play, or while serving their Dom/Master. As i stated earlier i was picked as one of the winners of this collar, i check the website and the price is $37.90 USD, well worth every penny!!!!

The Silicone Ball Gag. it is 1 ⅜’ inches, comes in 6 other colors besides the purple one i ordered. On the website it is listed for $29.90 USD, which is a great price, especially considering the amazing quality of an item you will be receiving. The silicone ball is non-toxic and has a completely neutral taste, i really hate the taste of plastic, lube or anything artificial like that, so that is a bonus for me.  The strap for all of them is black, made of quality leather, is really comfortable to wear. The buckle is easy to use and quality made, very comfortable for extended use as well. I visited the website BONBDSM to get the specs on this item and it has this listed “Designed to ensure that your partner keeps their mouth shut” Romance, its alive and well.

The purple leather leash is of the same great quality. Its beautiful to look at but also tough enough to keep them in line. It is listed $28.90USD and comes in the same colors as the ball gag, and collars. The chain is aluminum and has metal snap hook, easy to take your bottom out for a walk, or training.

Overall i am completely satisfied with the customer service, shipping, quality of the products I’ve ordered, prices and even the ease of ordering.

All items listed above are for my own private collection and use.

Check out BONBDSM at the following sites and see for yourself.

Website: BONBDSM

Facebook page: BONBDSM

Etsy store: BONBDSM